Life’s lonely only if you fear solitude……

What is loneliness??? If I dive deep down inside….it’s a failed expedition with not even a single rewarding discovery.  Is it rooted to deprivation of some tangible aspect of our lives or a consequence of an irrevocable damage one suffered….??? Or is it just another way to steer clear of your own grey shades of life!!! I came face to face with this hostile reality when a very good friend of mine quoted “Don’t chase beautiful things, let them come to you”…It just took me a moment to juggle my thoughts and realize what a façade I had been weaving in my mind…All your problems stem from your own mind and thoughts….your thoughts conjure a misleading conviction which is a termite for the optimistic spirit for your life!!!

We choose to put a blindfold over all our unresolved issues and concerns, making a ghost out of them!!! Haunted by these, we start running from ourselves taking refuge in the comfort-zone of some person or activity. Disregarding the indispensable need of your soul to come to a consensus in life…..smoothening all the uneven edges of your life. As they say “the best way to escape from a problem is to solve it”!!! Let’s sit down and brood over the real reasons feeding these ghosts of our own mind, stare at your problems and combat them. Pull the veil off your mind to see the real you be it black, white or grey….embrace it. Revel in solitude and introspect to gain that pre-requisite perspective to LIVE and not JUST EXIST.

Lesson learnt, give yourself time and a piece of mind….so that when you go to the grave, your tombstone should not just read but mean “Rest In Peace”.